"He left visible marks when he punched me, and I have pictures of that.I didn't go the police because I was scared, I was in Italy alone, and I didn't know what to do." The Daily Mail described sources as saying Porter's past prevented him from obtaining security clearance for his White House role.She said Porter pulled her naked from a shower in 2010 and yelled at her. "I had already seen more extreme versions of the overreactions of anger that I had seen" before their marriage."I can't remember what triggered it," she continued.Pazder introduced the term "ritualized abuse" in 1980, describing the experiences of an adult survivor that was disclosing satanic abuse memories.He defined the phenomenon as "repeated physical, emotional, mental, and spiritual assaults combined with a systematic use of symbols, ceremonies, and machinations designed and orchestrated to attain malevolent effects." Later definitions came mostly from professionals addressing ritual abuse in child care settings.Both during and after the abuse, most victims are in a state of terror, mind control, and dissociation in which disclosure is exceedingly difficult. (BROAD DEFINITION) Ritual abuse is the abuse of a child, weaker adult, or animal in a ritual setting or manner. The group's ideology is used to justify the abuse, and abuse is used to teach the group's ideology.In a broad sense, many of our overtly or covertly socially sanctioned actions can be seen as ritual abuse, such as military basic training, hazing, racism, spanking children, and partner-battering. The activities are kept secret from society at large, as they violate norms and laws.
Rob Porter, the White House staff secretary who's an integral part of President Donald Trump's inner circle, resigned Wednesday after two of his ex-wives accused him of physically and emotionally abusing them during their marriages.
But I definitely want him in the White House and the position he is in.
I think his integrity and ability to do his job is impeccable.
"He lashed out and was really angry, and both under his breath and explicitly to me called me a 'f---ing b----' and 'f---ing ridiculous.' He accused me of not caring about him or not caring about his needs." But Willoughby said she "definitely" wanted to see Porter stay in the White House.
"I want to be very clear when I say this," she said. I would not recommend anyone to date him or marry him.